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GENEALOGY

Show 161

Air date: 3/17/02

Do you know how many branches your family tree has? Tracing your family roots has become a popular project for everyday people, not just Alex Haley or stuffy historians. Here, Ann Sindelar, genealogist from the Western Reserve Historical Society, will help us branch out into the finer points of genealogy.

Question: Why are people interested in looking up their family roots?
 

Answer: There are several reasons. Sometimes people are interested in researching their own family to simply generate a list of ancestors and gather information about them. For instance, they might want to research the military service of ancestors and see who might have served in the Civil War.  Others are researching their towns rather than their families, trying to discover why people settled in that area.

Question: If you are interested in looking up your family tree, what would you recommend as the first step?
 

Answer: Start at home. Look through old boxes stored in the attic or the basement and look for diaries, certificates, and newspaper clippings. Keep your eyes peeled for names, dates of birth, death and marriage, and places.
If you are a senior and know a lot of the family history, write stuff down. Your children and grandchildren might be able to find out the names and dates of ancestors, but you might be able to provide little bits of history by filling in the character of a family member—his/her likes and dislikes, favorite songs, books, etc. Even if the younger generations don’t seem interested now, it’s likely that they will be in the future.
This step can be used to bridge the gaps between the generations and bring people closer together.

Question: After you’ve exhausted any information you might have at home, what’s the next step?
 

Answer: Visit a library like the Western Reserve Historical Society and research old historical documents. At WRHS, we give you an Ancestry Chart to fill out all the information you already have. After you fill out the info, the librarian can help you come up with a strategy to fill in the blanks.
The library has 18,000 books on families, military records, county records, indexes to marriages, and newspaper articles. It specializes in Ohio, contiguous states, the East Coast and the Mid-Atlantic states.
Perhaps the most important documents you can look at are the censuses. We have every census from 1790-1920 on microfilm. This is our most comprehensive resource, giving information on family members in households, ages, dates of birth, dates of immigration and naturalization, etc.
The censuses are released 72 years after they are taken. Therefore, the 1930 census will be arriving at the Historical Society in April. This is the most detailed census yet, including military service information, the price of rent, and whether or not the family owns a radio.


Question: What if your family immigrated? What kind of information can you find then?
 

Answer: We have “how-to” books that describe how to research various ethnic groups.

Question: Is any information on genealogy available online?
 

Answer: Many genealogists have websites.
Look up www.wrhs.org, and you can gain access to the titles in the Historical Society’s collection.

 

Digging up our family roots can be an enlightening process. My thanks to Ann Sindelar for giving us novice genealogists the gardening tools to cultivate our own family trees.

 

---Ann Sindelar
Special Projects, Western Reserve Historical Society

For more information on this topic, call

Western Reserve Historical Society

216-721-5722

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TREASURES IN YOUR ATTIC

Show 162

Air date: 3/24/02

Forget about buying lottery tickets! You may already be rich and not know it! You just might have a treasure in your attic, or your basement, or just sitting in your kitchen or living room. Auctioneer and antique appraiser Evelyn Hayes has advice to help us find our hidden treasures.


Question: What are some common items we might have in our homes that might be antiques or collectibles?
 

Answer: Most often, antiques and collectibles are items that people use, or used to use, in everyday life. They’ve always been around, and so we find them common. Some good examples of this would be old pitchers, teapots and coffee pots that our grandmothers may have purchased. They are around us, so we don’t find them special. But they could be worth something.
Also, items that you may have picked up in yard sales or flea markets might be worth money. (Example: chrome heart tray she purchased at St. Vincent DePaul’s for $.85 that is worth between $40-$50.
Another item many people often don’t consider are textiles, such as quilts.


Question: If you buy something at a rummage sale, or find something passed down through your family in the attic, how can find out if there is a monetary value to it?
 

Answer: It might not hurt to do some preliminary research yourself by looking the item up in a collector’s publication such as the Kovels.
The condition of the item affects the price. Any chips or cracks will lower the value. Repairing the mars may lower the value even further unless the repairs are done expertly.
You can look up an items marking to find a general price, but markings are often faked, so an expert is needed.
 

Question: How do you find an expert? And, when you do, how can you tell if he/she is being honest?

Answer: Experts are often antique dealers or auctioneers. Going to an auctioneer for pricing may be preferable. Auctioneers need to be on top of pricing in order to run the auction, and will be able to give you a good market price. They may also be able to direct you to the right venue to sell your object for a good price.
Make sure the appraiser gives you price research and documentation in writing. They should be able to document when a similar item was sold and for how much.
Question the appraiser. Have they sold items like these before? Is it a good time in the market for the item you’re interested in selling? Can I make a reserve bid, and what should that bid be?

Is your trash really treasure? Only an expert can tell you for sure, but you have to do some homework too.
 

---Evelyn Hayes, Auctioneer

For more information on this topic, call

Prosperity Productions

216-381-3878

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GRANDPARENTS' RIGHTS

Show 162

Air date: 3/24/02

All of the grandparents I know LOVE being grandparents. But what if you have a disagreement with your child, or the child’s spouse—can they stop you from seeing your grandchildren? Dr. Stephanie FallCreek, Executive Director of the Fairhill Center for the Aging, explains grandparents’ rights.


Question: What happens if your child gets a divorce and your former son or daughter-in-law is awarded custody of your grandchildren? If the divorce is nasty, he or she might not allow YOU to visit your grandchildren. Do grandparents have any rights in this situation?
 

Answer: If the custodial parent is the former in-law, and does not want you to visit the child/children, grandparents can petition the courts for legal visitation.
The court bases its decision on a number of factors. These include what is best for the child, issues that exist between the child’s parents, what the relationship has been in the past between grandparent and grandchild, and the health of all involved.
Convenience of visitation is also considered. For example, the grandparent might live in a different state.

Question: If you live in two different states, how does that affect the court proceedings?
 

Answer: Different states have different laws concerning grandparents’ rights. Some states are friendlier to grandparents than others. The state where the child lives has jurisdiction in these cases.
Ohio is middle of the road when it comes to grandparents’ rights. They allow visitation/companionship rights to grandparents when there is a divorce and the former in-law has custody, when a child dies and the grandchildren are left with the in-law, or in cases where an unmarried woman has a child without a questionable paternity.

Question: We’ve talked about visitation when the former in-law or an unwed mother has custody of your grandchildren. What if YOUR child is denying you visitation rights? Can you fight for rights in that case?
 

Answer: No. If your own child does not want you to visit, you have no rights.

Question: What if grandchildren are removed from their parents’ home due to abuse or neglect? Do the grandparents still have rights?
 

Answer: According to the Ohio Department of Jobs and Family Services, if the children are placed in temporary custody, grandparents have visitation rights.
If permanent custody is required, it is preferred that grandparents are the adopters.

Question: What if the child IS placed up for adoption, and the grandparents cannot take custody? Do they still have visitation rights?
 

Answer: If the child is adopted by a relative, or if a step-parent adopts a child, the grandparents can still petition for visitation rights.
If the child is adopted by a non-relative, all visitation ceases.

If the welfare of your grandchildren is at stake, you have to fight for your rights as grandparents, and fight hard.

 

---Stephanie FallCreek, DSW
Exec. Dir., Fairhill Center

For more information on this topic, call

Kinship Care Resource Center

216-421-1350

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BOOK:

CLEVELAND ETHNIC EATS

 

Show 164

Air date: 4/7/02

Do you suffer from the burger blues? Have you eaten so much chicken you’re ready to fly the coop? Don’t despair. There’s a whole world of exciting food to explore, and we have just the person to take us on a world eating tour, right in our own backyard. Laura Taxel, author of “Cleveland Ethnic Eats,” will feed our appetite for great ethnic food.


Question: What does your book cover and how did you come up with the idea for it?
 

Answer: When I was a teenager, I moved to Europe and traveled around, so I had been exposed to a large number of cultures.
When my husband and I moved to Cleveland, we began exploring the area for interesting food. I had been writing for magazines, but after the birth of my three children, I started writing about food—it was what I knew.
I began with restaurants in my area and spread out. The first edition of the book was published in 1995. The 2002 edition has 187 new restaurants and has been expanded to include dining all around the state of Ohio.

Question: Have you eaten at these restaurants? Do you have any restaurant tips for our viewers?
 

Answer:  Yes, most of them. Even the ones outside of my neighborhood.
Many people are afraid to venture outside their area for restaurants, especially if it means driving across town or in unfamiliar areas in the evening. If you can, do some traveling at lunchtime.
Not only can you see better when driving, but lunch is often a less expensive way to sample a restaurant’s menu.
 

Question: When we think of ethnic eats, a lot of people think Italian, Mexican or Chinese. Are there any really unique restaurants you might be able to tell us about?
 

Answer: Yes. In the Cleveland area, there is a new Caribbean restaurant named Rachel’s Caribbean Cuisine. The owner/chef is from Jamaica. The restaurant specializes in Caribbean food, which often includes seafood, chicken, fruit and curry.
Columbus is home to the only Indonesian restaurant in Ohio—Java House. There is also a restaurant called the Latin Rooster that specializes in South American (not Mexican) cuisine.

Question: The book doesn’t only cover restaurants—it covers markets as well?
 

Answer: Yes. Many more people are starting to try ethnic cooking at home. It’s often more convenient and inexpensive.

Be adventurous and try one of the dishes Laura has mentioned today. My thanks to Laura Taxel for giving us some food for thought, and making me hungry for lunch.

---Laura Taxel  

For more information on  “Cleveland Ethnic Eats”, call

Gray and Company Publishers

216-431-2888

www.grayco.com

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SPRINGTIME GARDENING

Show 164

Air date: 4/7/02

I don’t know about you, but I’m ready to trade in the steely gray skies of winter for the many colors of spring. And one of the most colorful ways to do just that is by sprucing up your yard with plants that thrive in the spring. Gardening expert Richard Grobelny from Breezewood Gardens will help sow the seeds to our gardening success.
 

Question: After a gray winter, we’re ready to have some color in our yards. What are some plants we can purchase/plant that will add color in the early spring?


Answer:

  • Witch Hazel: Large flowering shrub. Yellow to orange-red in color. Plant in full sun to part shade, tolerates many soil types.

  • Cornelian Cherry Dogwood: Large bush, can look like a short tree. Yellow flowers and red cherries.

  • Forsythia: Medium to large-growing shrub. Vibrant yellow flowers bloom in March/April

  • PJM Hybrid Rhododendron: Type of rhododendron that is cold hardy. Purple flowers.

  • Heath “Mediterranean”: Evergreen ground covers, pink and white shades. Put in sunny spots like rock and perennial gardens. Well-drained soil is important.

  • Eastern Redbud Tree: Small growing trees. Intense pink flowers before leaves emerge. Prefer partial shade and well-drained soil.

Question: Once you’ve chosen the plants that you would like to add color to your yard, is there a proper way to plant them for good growth?


Answer: Yes. In Ohio, planting depth is a determining factor in the success of new plantings. Position the root ball so that ¼ to 1/3 of it is above the ground and rounded up to with soil.


Question: Should you add anything to the soil to ensure plant growth? What about mulch or fertilizer?

Answer: Yes. In Ohio, heavy clay soil can be a deterrent. To ensure success, be sure to add organic material to the soil, such as peat moss, compost and composted manure.
Mulch benefits new planting by helping to moderate soil temperatures and retain water, which are important for the best root growth in new plants.
However, you should use fertilizer with caution, avoiding it the first year of planting. If you have to that first year, use an organic or slow release fertilizer like Plant Tone or Osmocote. These will prevent harm to tender new roots.

---Richard Grobelny

For more information on this topic, call

Breezewood Gardens

440-543-2124

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SENIOR ADULT EDUCATION

Show 165

Air date: 4/14/02

Perhaps you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but for humans, it’s never too late to learn about art, or how to speak a new language. Learning can actually be fun. Think about when you were in school. If you could pick your classes, pick your teachers, no homework, no tests – that’s not too bad. Here to tell us about some enjoyable learning opportunities is Betsey Luce, program coordinator of senior adult education at Cuyahoga Community College, and Lou Jones, a senior student.


Question: When seniors come to further their education, what sorts of topics/subjects do they look for?
 

Answer: Many people are looking to advance technologically. We have opened a computer-learning center, where we walk people through buying a computer to using the Internet, word processing, Excel, or Access.
There are a variety of classes available to seniors, whether they deal with art, Ohio history, geography, second languages, or tai chi.
Classes are taught by retired professors or professionals in their fields.

Question: When we’re younger, most people can’t wait to get out of school. Why do some seniors find adult education so enriching?
 

Answer: Most of the seniors we find are self-motivated. Many of them travel a lot and are former teachers.  Students come from a variety of economic and educational backgrounds. It’s perfectly fine if the person does not have a college degree. There are no homework or tests.
 

Question: (To Lou) How long have you taken senior education courses? Why did you start? Why do you continue?
Answer: I began taking classes about 10 years ago. I had gotten my college degree later in life (started college at age 45), and then worked in marketing. With my job, I worked with a number of elderly clients and was impressed with how active they kept themselves. So, I decided to take classes after I retired.
Classes can be for your mind, body, or for fun. For example, I’ve taken classes about Beethoven, yoga, politics, etc.  I stay for the education and the camaraderie. I have made many friends and acquaintances through these classes.
Only complaint is that I can’t decide which courses I want to take first.


Question: Lou spoke about the social benefits of taking senior classes. What are some of the educational or health benefits?

Answer: Recent studies have shown that seniors who keep their minds active have less of a chance of developing Alzheimer’s Disease.
Professors comment that classes with senior students are often more interesting/of benefit because the students have experienced more. Many have traveled. Concerning history courses, some may have first-hand experience with the topic (like World War II).
Students have said that walking into the college makes them feel young again.  

For more information on this topic, call

Cuyahoga Community College Senior Adult Education

216-987-2274

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DICK FEAGLER:

I Know I'm Not Supposed to Say this...But I'll Say it Anyway

Show 165

Air date: 4/14/02

Some people are shy, timid, and above all, keep their opinions to themselves. That’s not our next guest. In his new book, “I know I’m not supposed to say this…But I’ll say it anyway,” award winning commentator and columnist Dick Feagler isn’t afraid to tell it like it is.

Question: This book is a collection of your newspaper columns. How long have you been writing columns?
 

Answer: For 30 years. I started column writing in 1971 at the old Cleveland Press, and have continued with The Plain Dealer.
Until last year, I wrote three columns a week. In 2001, I thought I needed a bit of a break. Now I write one column per week.

Question: What convinced you to collect your columns into a book?

Answer: Well, this is the third book where I’ve compiled some of my columns. A friend, Richard Osborne, who is the book’s editor, first approached me with the idea. He sorts through my columns and picks his favorites. I then go through to make sure he doesn’t miss any that I find of interest. We then put our lists together, I write a preface, and that’s the book.

Question: After 30 years of column writing—how do you come up with the topics?
 

Answer: Desperation and the need to pay my mortgage. Honestly, you constantly read the news to gather ideas. I tend to wait until the last minute, to be both timely and to put the pressure on.

  

For more information on this topic, call

Gray and Company Publishers

216-431-2888
www.grayco.com

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CHOCOLATE IS GOOD FOR YOU!

Show 166

Air date: 4/21/02

Dark chocolate. Milk chocolate. White chocolate. If you’re a chocoholic like I am, they all sound delicious. Fattening, but delicious. Can chocolate actually be good for you too? Here to give us the sweet scoop, and to show us mounds of the good stuff, is chocolate expert Adele Malley.
 

Question: I think most people would be in agreement that chocolate makes people feel pretty good…but is there actually a scientific reason for that?
 

Answer: Yes. Chocolate contains a small amount of caffeine and another stimulant. Also, chocolate can help boost serotonin and endorphin levels in the brain. This helps to improve your mood. Chocolate is the most craved food in the country, especially for women.

Question: So chocolate really does make you feel good—is it good for you though?
 

Answer: Dark chocolate, in moderate amounts, has relatively little sugar. It contains cocoa butter, which has a beneficial effect on blood cholesterol levels. It contains antioxidants, which can help with disease protection.

Question: What about milk chocolate or white chocolate?
 

Answer: Milk chocolate has less cocoa and fewer antioxidants and more fat.
White chocolate has no cocoa and antioxidants.
Both still make you feel good, though!

Malley’s Top Five in the Spring Line of Chocolates:

  • Nutmello: Marshmallows and walnuts mixed together, formed into a loaf, and covered with chocolate.

  • Bordeaux: English toffee, chocolate and almonds.

  • Chocolate Covered Pretzels

  • General Assorted Chocolates

  • Billybobs: Fresh roasted pecans drizzled with golden caramel and covered with milk chocolate. These were so popular, they created a Billybob “family.” The chocolate is now available in pecans, cashews, peanuts and almonds.

For more information on this topic, call

Malley's Chocolate

216-226-8300

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FEATURE INTERVIEW: PAIGE PALMER

Show 167

Air date: 5/12/02

Way before Jane Fonda was telling us to “go for the burn,” Ohio’s own Paige Palmer was keeping us fit and helping us have fun. This is a real treat. I have such fond memories of me and my mom following her exercise routines on television, and I bet you do too. It’s my honor and pleasure to welcome television legend Paige Palmer to our program.


Question: How did you get involved in television?
 

Answer: I lived in New York City back in the early 1940s when television was in its experimental phase. I worked for one of the fabric houses in New York, and they were placing television sets in department stores to gauge interest in the medium. I started doing a women’s show that aired in the department stores in 1944.
In 1947, I went back home to the Akron area to visit friends, one of whom was producing a show on WEWS. She introduced me to the station’s director, Mr. Hanrahan, who asked me to start a show here. I started with a 15-week contract and ended up staying 25 years. My first show aired on January 13th, 1948.
At first, I never thought that I would stay in television long. Few people owned TVs. No one who worked in television knew what they were doing. For black and white TV, you had to wear very dramatic makeup and dark clothing to show up onscreen.
But not only did I stay, but I was on a lot. My show was on 5 times a week. For awhile, I’d fly to Pittsburgh every weekday after my Cleveland show to tape one there in the afternoon. I also did a Bonne Bell show for teenagers on Saturdays.
 

Question: Everyone remembers you for your exercises…
 

Answer:  Yes, they do. Back then, no one considered exercising as important as they do today. We were a hit with “fanny scoots” and “rock and roll” moves. Today, I have many people come up to me who say that they remember watching me as a child and exercising with their mother. It’s nice that I’ve been able to be a positive memory in their lives.

Question: But your shows had more to them besides the exercising.
 

Answer: Yes. We had doctors on the program to teach viewers about x-rays and to talk about new procedures at the time, such as artery transplants.
I had an attorney segment called “Who’s Liable?” where attorneys and judges would look at simple cases.
I did one tank trips around Ohio.
We covered fashion, whether it be the fashion houses in France and Italy or vintage clothing at the Good Will.
We had an antique segment.
I had on local artists regularly.
But yes, everyone remembers me for the exercises.

Question: When did you retire?
 

Answer: I retired from television in 1973. I had picked up Meineir’s Syndrome in India, and would go into very bad vertigo on a moment’s notice. However, it opened up other opportunities.
I did radio for 10 years after television.
Also, I wrote a book for Fodor’s on my trip to India. I then wrote my own book called “The Best of India,” for which the Indian government decorated me. I was also the first person to interview the Dalai Lama after he came out of Tibet.
I also collect pottery. I started my collection early enough that I have a number of unusual pieces. Recently, Kent University had an exhibit of my collection.

Question: You are part of The Benjamin Rose Institute’s Mythbusters, who deal with breaking myths about older adults. What opinions do you have about aging?
 

Answer: Chronological age has nothing to do with it. If you still have the curiosity of a child, you are young at heart.
Also, today you hear so much about seniors, but so much focus is on people who are in their 50s and 60s. These individuals have MUCH different needs from people in their 70s and 80s. There really has to be a line between seniors and “super seniors,” those who are “older” seniors.
 

---Paige Palmer 

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CRAFT: KEEPSAKE FRAME

Show #171
 Air date: 6/16/02

Casual Weathered Look (Perfect for that great vacation photo)

Supplies you'll need:

  • Unfinished Wood Frame (we used a Walnut Hollow ™ Home Décor Series #23421) 4X6 opening

  • Folk Art ™ Paint Color: # 649Warm White,  # 888 Matte Varnish

  • Decorator Glaze: Neutral, 2 oz, #53001, Danish Blue, 2 oz., #53024

  • French Brush #30122

  • Decorative Accents

  • Create-A-House ™

  • Decorative Molding

  • Sandpaper – 200 grit and fine grit

  • Tac Cloth

  • 1” and 2” Foam Brushes

  • Disposable Foam Plates

  • Palette Knife or Plastic Spoon

  • Soft cloth

  • Paper Towels

  • Glue Gun or Super Glue

  • Hacksaw or craft knife for cutting molding

Instructions:

  • Basecoat frame with two coats Warm White.  Sand lightly between coats and wipe with tac cloth.

  • Mix equal parts (approx 1 oz.) of the Neutral and Danish Blue glazes with the palette knife (or spoon).  Pour some of the mixture into a disposable plate.

  • Dip the French Brush into the glaze mixture and remove excess on the side of the plate.  

  • Start at one edge of the frame and “lightly” stroke back and forth on the frame, following the wood grain.

  • Wipe the brush on the cloth and continue to brush over the area you just painted.  You will be removing small amounts of the paint to reveal the color beneath it to give it the aged and worn look.

  • Allow to dry.  Sand lightly around the edges to further the weathered look.

  • Cut a piece of the molding to fit the lower edge of the frame. Sand the edges to smooth any rough edges.

  • Paint the molding with undiluted Danish Blue glaze and wipe off the excess with a cloth.  This technique will stain the unfinished piece, giving it a contrasting value of the same color on the frame.

  • Apply 2 – 3 light coats of the Matte sealer to the frame and molding piece.  Sand the frame lightly between coats and wipe with the tac cloth.  Allow to dry thoroughly between coats.

  • Use glue gun to adhere accessories and embellishments.

  • Cut a piece of cardboard or matte board the same size as the picture opening.

  • Insert your favorite photo and place the cardboard behind it.  You may also use a sticky tac or double sided tape to secure them in place.

Note:

  • You can use your imagination with embellishments on your own personal frame.  Try rub-ons, stickers, decoupage, stencils, fabric or decorative painting effects.

  • Wash all brushes and tools in warm soapy water. Allow to dry on a towel overnight and they’re ready to use again for your next project!! 

For more information on this topic, call

Jo-Ann, etc

440-974-1855

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LOVE THE SECOND TIME AROUND

Show 174

Air date: 7/14/02

Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? If you’re single again, you may be worried that the dating game has changed a lot since the last time you “played”. Here, Kathy Dawson, author of Diagnosis Marriage, an expert on marriage and relationships, will help us learn the new rules.

 

Question: Many times people find themselves looking for companionship as they get older, whether it’s due to divorce or the death of a spouse. But the “dating game” has changed a LOT…what must we remember when entering later in life?
 

Answer: The most important thing, at any age really, is to be yourself. If you project something that is untrue to your character and someone likes you for it, they don’t like the true you. So if you’re not talkative for example, don’t put up a front.
Also, remember that some relationships click…and some just don’t. Don’t force it. Even relationships that don’t work out are not a waste of time—you always learn something about yourself in the process.

Question: That’s great advice—but what if you’re so out of the dating loop that you can’t find anyone to practice those tips on? How can you meet people?
 

Answer: Well, there are always singles groups, but some people are really uncomfortable with that scene. But let me give you a list of five ways to easily meet others—you likely will have something in common with you.
 

  • First, carry or wear something that others will notice. Whether it be a pin, a hat, or an interesting book…anything that might prompt a conversation. Also, pay attention to what OTHER people are wearing or carrying so that you can make the first comment.

  • Go to an author’s book signing. Often you have to wait in line for a long period of time and have a chance to strike up conversations. Also, you would both be interested in the same topic.

  • Have a party. Invite friends and ask them to invite one or two people you’ve never met.

  • Change your mode of transportation. If you drive, take the rapid or the bus, or even walk.

  • Volunteer for a charity event. You’ll meet people with similar values and missions.

Question: After you meet someone comes the first date. If you haven’t been on a first date in awhile, what do you recommend?
 

Answer:

  • Brainstorm for possible places and activities beforehand. Avoid movies or noisy places—you want to be able to speak on the first date.

  • Try to smile.

  • Ask open-ended questions to spurn conversation (not just yes/no answers).

  • Compliment them on something specific (“Your tie brings out the color of your eyes,” rather than “You look nice.”

Question: Are people gun-shy about getting involved in a second relationship?

Answer: They can be. If you were divorced, it’s really important to look candidly at the part you played in the end of your marriage to see what you would have done differently.
Remember—you DESERVE to be loved. I know someone whose wife died six years ago and he’s finally found another relationship. Even though it’s been six years, his children don’t approve. You shouldn’t feel guilty—you deserve to move on.
 

---Kathy Dawson

For more information on this topic, call

Marriage Movement

216-932-5016

marriagemovement.com

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Benefits Check-Up

Show 180

Air date: 8/25/02

There’s a lot of help out there for seniors. If you need help with chores around the house, prescription drug costs and other medical bills, snow shoveling, or paying your rent, just to name a few, there are programs available to help. The problem is finding them. Most of these are well kept secrets. That is, until today. Lynn Wieland, from the Cuyahoga County Department of Senior and Adult Services, tells us about a wonderful service that enables you to do one stop benefit shopping.


Question: Benefits Check-Up is a new program. Can you explain to our viewers how it can help them?


Answer: Sure. Benefits Check-Up is an internet-based screening tool for seniors to learn what benefits they qualify for.
All you have to do is go on our website, www.benefitscheckup.org, and enter the requested information.
All information is anonymous—you do not have to enter a social security number. Instead, you find out the information by use of your zip code.
 

Question: What kinds of programs are included?

Answer: There are 66 in Ohio.

They include the biggies, like Social Security, Medicare & Medicaid
But lots more:

  • Veterans Medical & Loans

  • Senior Citizen Tax Credit

  • Concordia Care - medical

  • Various Community Chore Services

  • Together Rx Card

  • Various Home Care Programs

  • Nutrition Programs

  • Alzheimer’s Programs

  • Golden Buckeye Discount Card

Question: Do you find that a lot of people are missing out on benefits that they are eligible for?
 

Answer: Yes. That’s why the National Council on Aging has set Benefits Check-Up up as a pilot program to make this information easily available.

Question: Is anyone able to go on the site and enter the information?
 

Answer: Yes, it’s open to the public. Benefits begin at age 55. However, you can access the site at any age, from anywhere. For example, if I’m in my 40s and live in Cleveland, I could go into the site and look for information for my senior mother who lives in Florida. Again, I’d just have to enter her information and her zip code.

Question: What kinds of information must we have ready when we access the site?
 

Answer: A lot of the information is demographics—where you live, age, etc. Other info includes questions on housing, health, employment, volunteerism etc. Income and assets are also asked about, but anonymously. Finally, if you are a veteran, there is a special section pertaining to that information.

Question: What kind of information will you get BACK, once you enter your own?
 

Answer: A list of what services you might be eligible for, a description of the service, where to go to sign up, and the types of documentation you’ll need for the application process.

 

Question: What's the cost?

 

Answer: It's Free.


Question: Not all seniors have access to the Internet. Is there a way to check-up on your benefits even if you don’t own a computer?

Answer: Yes. We’ve realized that a lot of people who need this information don’t have computer access, unless they were to go to a library.  Therefore, we have offices set-up in Golden Age Centers around the area, such as in Lakewood, Euclid, Bedford Heights and MetroHealth. Here, our staff can ask the questions.
Also, you may go to these sites and get help with the applications for these services.


One stop shopping for benefits, from the comfort of your own home. What a welcome benefit. I’m so excited about this program, we’re using it in my office to help clients. My thanks to Lynn Wieland. If you think you might benefit from the Benefits Checkup, call the number. Lynn’s office wants to help.

 

---Lynn Wieland, MPA

For more information on this topic, call

Benefits Check-Up

216-420-6840

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SENIOR DOGS

Show 182

Air date: 9/7/02

Today’s show is going to the dogs, literally. Dogs aren’t just for kids. Our experts are here to tell us why a dog may really add to your quality of life. Here to make sure we don’t bark up the wrong tree is my friend Shandra Koler, from the Cleveland Kennel, and Deborah Workman, with the Sanctuary for Senior Dogs.

 

Question: What benefits does owning a dog have?

 

Answer: They provide unconditional love, and are excited to see you.  As you get older, you tend to be more sedentary - a dog forces you to be social.
They can be your companion, especially if there is no one else.
They offer protection.
It has also been shown that having a dog can help lower your blood pressure.

 

Question: If you are an older adult, and are looking for the companionship of a dog, what type of animal might best fit your lifestyle?

Answer: Most people, when they look for a dog, have a puppy in mind. That isn’t always the best idea for someone who is older. Puppies are more excitable, chew on things, and need to be trained. They might take up a lot of your time and energy.
One might consider adopting a senior dog, one that is 7 or older. They have mellowed out by this time, not chewing your shoes anymore or barking constantly. They may not need to be exercised as frequently, are already trained and are more able to fit into existing households.
I’ve had seniors come up to me in the kennel, concerned that, if they purchase a puppy, the dog might survive them. Adopting a senior pet might be an answer to that concern.

Question: I know you are involved in an effort to find homes for senior dogs?

Answer: Yes. The Sanctuary for Senior Dogs rescues older dogs from area shelters before they are put down. We take care of their medical and emotional needs and then network with people to find them homes.
We also house two dogs that are certified and trained in therapy. They visit nursing homes and hospitals. We find that residents come out of themselves, and studies have shown that pets can reduce blood pressure and depression.
Deborah’s work is very important because older dogs are harder to place from shelters—most people want puppies and/or are concerned about not having the medical history of the dogs.

Question: That’s a good point—when you adopt a dog, no matter what the age, what should you look for health wise?


Answer: With any animal, you should either be told the history of their health or, if that’s not available, be able to bring the pet to a veterinarian prior to committing to adopting the animal.
If you adopt a dog from us, we have already had heart work done on the dog, and a geriatric blood screening. That tests the function of all major organs. We disclose health issues.
You should also look at the animal’s temperament. When you visit it at the shelter, is it friendly in the cage? Does it come forward, not minding if you touch its paws, and take treats out of your hand? You should also look at the energy level, to see if it’s as active or calm as you’d like.
If temperament and activity level change, that could be a sign that something’s wrong.

Question: Is there any services available to seniors to help them take care of their pet is the owner is not mobile or falls ill?

Answer: Yes. You can find people who will walk your dog, or even clean-up your yard.
There is also doggie daycare, where your pet can receive the right amount of exercise.
Contact your vet—he/she should be able to direct you to the right people.

Make no bones about it. Dogs can be your best friend. My thanks to Deborah and Shandra for their advice on canine companionship. If you are interested in possibly adopting a dog, give Deborah a call.

For more information on this topic, call

The Sanctuary for Senior Dogs

216-485-9233

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BOOK:

"KILLER IN THE ATTIC"

 

Show 183

Air date: 9/14/02

Sam Shepard, Shondor Birns, Danny Green, Cleveland has had its share of notorious figures. And did you know that practically every Cleveland landmark has a crime or disastrous death connected to it?  Here to give us a tour of Cleveland’s dark side is John Stark Bellamy, author of "The Killer in the Attic and More True Tales of Crime and Disaster from Cleveland’s past".

Question: What sparked your interest in true crimes and disasters and historical Cleveland?
 

Answer: I come from a long line of news people. My grandfather was editor and chief of “The Plain Dealer” for 25 years, and my dad worked there for 50 years. Very often the dinner table discussion was centered on the news of the day, and that included crime stories.
I’ve also always just had a melancholic personality. I enjoy and am interested in sad things.
I do like the disaster stories to balance the crime stories because of the heroism that’s involved in them—they often feature unexpected candidates for heroism.
Focusing on Cleveland is intriguing because it shows us the “romantic side of familiar things,” to quote Charles Dickens. Practically every well-known Cleveland landmark has a crime or disastrous death connected to it.

Question: Could you give us an example of that?
 

Answer: Take the Terminal Tower. While under construction, two workers were buried alive in cement. The shaft next to theirs was being filled, and the wall between the two shafts collapsed because there was not enough dirt separating them.
As is typical in Cleveland, there were warning signs to the disaster that were ignored. After it happened, public outcry was great and politicians promised changes—but nothing happened in the end, and no one even took fault for the accident.
Another example of the many times this pattern has occurred in Cleveland history is the 1949 Thompson Trophy Tragedy. Pilots were dying every year during the Cleveland National Air Races, and the suburbs around the airport were growing more and more dense. After years of near misses, a plane finally crashed into a home, killing a young mother and her baby.
 

Question: You’ve written four books—how do you find your stories?
 

Answer: Various ways. Some, like the Shepard murder, the Torso murders or Beverly Potts disappearance are part of Cleveland’s inheritance. However, by researching these crimes, you find mentions of other past events.
People now approach me with ideas.
Some you just find by chance. For example, I was at the Shaker Heights police station picking up my daughter’s bike that had been stolen and I came across a case in the lobby honoring the police officers killed while on duty. One, from 1924, intrigued me, and I wrote a story about it.

Question: You’ve written about a lot of really tragic topics. Was there one that was the most difficult to write about? Is there one that affected you the most emotionally?
 

Answer: The only one that really got to me was the Collinwood school fire. 172 school children were killed in this tragedy. I was putting together a slide show, which takes about a month, and the pictures of all these children who perished just became very depressing. It got to be too much. Also, I live about ½ mile away from the site and drive by it frequently.

Question: Who was the most interesting character you’ve come across?

Answer: The most frightening criminal I’ve written about was a woman named Eva Kaber. Eva was convinced that her wealthy husband was going to change his will and leave her penniless. Therefore, she plotted to kill him by arsenic poisoning. The poisoning didn’t kill him—it left him as a quadriplegic. She then, along with the help of her daughter and grandmother, plotted his death by hiring two hit men, who stabbed the husband 24 times. She was only imprisoned after her father-in-law hired private detectives who broke the grandmother down. From jail, Eva tried to sell her story to Hollywood and, with that money, kill the warden and wife and escape the prison.
Another really interesting character was Shondor Birns, one of the last big-time gangsters.

Truth is often stranger, sadder and more frightening than fiction. My thanks to John Stark Bellamy for bringing Cleveland’s past into the present for us today. As you can tell, John is quite a story teller, and his book is really eye-opening. Now we’re going to give you a chance to win a free copy of John’s latest book. Here’s how.  

For more information on this topic, call

Gray and Co. Publishers

1-800-915-3609
www.grayco.com

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BOOK:

"My Survivor's Guide"

 

Show 185

Air date: 10/5/02


Question: How did you come up with the idea to write a book about death and survivors?
 

Answer: I first created it 21 years ago. I was in my 30s, and I had never been to a funeral of someone close to me before. I was pregnant and began to think about family a lot, and wondered how families prepared for loss.
I interviewed friends and family, joined a Memorial Society, and wrote the book based on my research.

Question: What types of things are in the book?
 

Answer: First, it’s more like a workbook than a book. People need something to WRITE in, to leave this personalized information to their loved ones. I suggest writing the info in pencil.
Information includes a place for detailed funeral plans, obituary information, personal messages for loved ones, etc.
It also touches upon things you might not have thought of—pet care, who to contact when someone dies, like the newspaper delivery person.
Also, this version is updated to include websites, such as the Memorial Society’s site or one for Veterans’ Benefits.
I also left a lot of empty spaces in the back for things the owner of the workbook thinks of—it’s THEIR book.

Question: Have you used the book?
 

Answer: Yes. It made me very teary when I wrote the message to my daughter, but I felt very relieved when I was done.
Filling out this book will give the owner peace of mind, and the survivors peace of mind when the owner passes away.

Question: What are some of the specifics the book offers?

Answer:

  • Page listing friends and others to contact immediately at death (includes attorney, broker, accountant, newspaper delivery person).

  • Name of the funeral director, wishes for the funeral if no pre-arrangement.

  • Includes some thing don’t think if, like names of pallbearers, suggested music, preferred speakers, plans for use of flowers after services.

  • Space for obituary, info

  • Page for information about your pet.

  • Page to list location of important things, like safe deposit key, & space for computer passwords.

  • Page to list where personal and household items should go.

  • Page for a personal message to kids

It might be difficult to talk or think about, but preparing your loved ones for you death can make that difficult time just a little bit easier for your family and friends. 

---Nikki Evans

If you are interested, send $14.50 for one or $28.00 for two books to:
P.O. Box 201147
Shaker Heights, OH 44120
E-mail: beyonddolls@hotmail.com

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THE INTERGENERATIONAL SCHOOL

 

Show 186

Air date: 10/12/02

Do you have fond memories of your mother teaching you to cook? Or let’s switch gears. Are your grandchildren teaching you about the internet? Sharing between generations has always been an important learning experience. And now there’s a school that embraces this educational promise as part of its mission. Here to talk about Cleveland’s new Intergenerational School is co-founder Dr. Peter Whitehouse and school principal Catherine Whitehouse.


Question: I have never heard of an intergenerational school before—what exactly does it entail?
 

Answer: The Intergenerational School is the world’s first. It’s a public elementary school located in Cleveland (on Fairhill Road, in between University Circle and Shaker Square).  Although it is a public school, it is part of the Ohio Community Charter schools, not the Cleveland Public School district. It is open to students in the Cleveland districts and adjacent districts.
The school sees learning as a lifelong process; therefore learners of all ages should be accepted. Young students learn ideas and concepts and take part in activities with adults, building a partnership and comradeship with them.

Question: Can you give us a few examples of how that works?
 

Answer: Sure. Each of our five classrooms is partnering with a long-term care facility. The children have a theme/subject they are working on in school that the seniors will help with. For example, the older children are learning about oral histories and memoirs. The seniors are sharing their stories with the youngsters, developing relationships. The culmination of the assignment will have the children writing the seniors’ memoirs.
Another intergenerational program is reading mentorship. The adult mentors work one-on-one with the children once a week for two hours, to teach the children to love stories.

Question: Can anyone get involved?
 

Answer:  We are always looking for adults who have the time to come and help. They can call the school and our coordinator will help match their personal interests, talents, and time to an activity.
Another great area in which people can help is with hobbies. We’ve found that children don’t have hobbies anymore. We’d love to have people come and teach crocheting, woodworking, checkers, etc.
While the school is set up for everyone to benefit from, it can especially speak to grandparents who are raising grandchildren. It deals with their unique circumstances.

Question: How many hours are adults expected to give?

Answer: 2 hours per week.

Question: Is any special training needed?

 

Answer: No.

You can share your talents with today’s youth, and learn a lot from them as well. If you’re interested in getting involved with this dynamic new school, we’ll tell you how in just a moment. My thanks to Peter and Cathy Whitehouse.

 

---Peter Whitehouse, MD, Ph.D.
Founder, Intergenerational School
Catherine Whitehouse
Principal, Intergenerational School

For more information on this topic, call

The Intergenerational School

216-721-0120

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SECOND MARRIAGES

 

Show 187

Air date: 10/19/02

Second marriages (or third or fourth marriages) can be wonderful. But they also often present special challenges. You may have children from a prior marriage, your spouse may have kids. Blending families may be like the Brady Bunch, or may turn out like a Nightmare on Elm Street. Here with her first rate tips on second marriages is relationship expert Kathy Dawson.


Question: Is it normal to feel something when a former spouse remarries? Does that mean you still harbor feelings or not?
 

Answer: Yes, it’s very natural to feel hurt or even a little jealous. You and your former spouse shared a strong connection at one time, and you should expect to feel a sense of history with him/her, even if the negative did outweigh the positive in the relationship. I’d be worried about someone who felt NOTHING at the remarriage of a former spouse. Most people need to grieve what they wished that relationship had been…and the fact that someone else might get that.  These feelings should dissipate over time…especially if you move on to a new relationship yourself.  I’d only be concerned if years go by and you are still dwelling on it.

Question: What should be your goal relationship, if any, with your ex's spouse number two?
 

Answer: You don’t have to be good friends with them. But you should be as cordial as you’d be with any stranger.

 

Question: What kinds of problems come up when you or your new spouse have children?

Answer: Don't expect it to be like the Brady Bunch. 
Example: teen girls now have to share bathroom.
You need to talk to your spouse about parenting style. Even get professional help from a marriage therapist specializing in blended families.

Question: Show you expect your adult children to give you problems when you remarry?

 

Answer: They may feel a parent is disloyal, especially if the parent died.

Question: How should you respond?

 

Answer: Tell them "This is my happiness. If you don’t like it, tough."

Question: How should you respond if your new spouse's kids are being mean to you?

 

Answer: Talk to your spouse. He/She should support you and tell his kids to respect you. The kids then need to hear that from their parent.

Question: Now let's flip the situation.  If you see your spouse's kids being mean to him or her or taking advantage , should you do anything?

 

Answer: Tell your spouse you’re angry, because you like your spouse. Ask spouse how he (she) feels. Brainstorm ideas. Ask what you can do to help. Suggest therapist.

Question: What if your spouse says don't worry, it's okay.  Should you push?

 

Answer: A little. Then say it bothers you, and you don’t want to be around when they are to see it.
 

Question: Second marriages can make for some complicated etiquette questions, especially this time of year. What can you do with awkward situations surrounding the holidays? Or the life events of the children involved, like graduations and weddings?


Answer: First, don’t play little games, like the silent treatment. People know when they’re being ignored. Be cordial and make small talk. The host of the event, especially if it’s one of the children, deserves that if nothing else.
Some people refuse to go to an event if “she” or “he” is going to be there—why should they go if they’re going to be uncomfortable. That is a bad idea. Divorce is a choice you have to live with. Not going to major family events is only going to estrange you from the entire family. You’re usually being asked to sit through a two-hour dinner party—not a vacation with the person.

Question: Lots of people are now remarrying late in life, whether it be due to a late divorce or the death of the spouse. This brings up whole new issues in regards to step-grandchildren.

Answer: Yes. First, it’s important to remember that a child can’t have too many grandparent figures in their lives. This can be a tremendous opportunity.
I recommend that the new spouse should take a step back when it comes to issues between the their spouse and the spouse’s child regarding the grandchild. For example, a grandfather remarried. His daughter disapproved of the roughhousing he does with his grandkid. The new spouse has her own concerns about boundaries, but has wisely stepped back and left this between them.
Adult children will hopefully understand that their parent deserves to have a happy life with someone, and will allow the grandchildren to be a part of that.

 

Your second marriage should be wonderful, romantic, magic. There will be challenges. Life’s not usually like the Brady Bunch. But Kathy’s tips should help. My thanks to Kathy Dawson. If you have questions about the relationships in your life, give Kathy a call.

---Kathy Dawson

For more information on this topic, call

The Marriage Movement

216-932-5016

marriagemovement.com

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DANCING WHEELS

 

Show 193

Air date: 11/30/02

When your aches and pains make you feel like just staying in bed, think of Mary Verdi-Fletcher. This amazing woman has had spina bifida since birth. She may be “confined” to a wheelchair. But she hasn’t let her wheelchair “define” her. She pursued her dreams, and today is an internationally recognized dancer. It is my great pleasure to welcome to our show Mary Verdi-Fletcher, and her dance company’s Artistic Director, Sabatino Verlezza.

 

Question: Mary, you created the new world famous dance company, Dancing Wheels.  Where did you get the idea?  I'm sure many people said it couldn't be done!


Answer: This is Dancing Wheels’ 22nd season.  My mother was a professional dancer and my father a musician, so it was only natural that I would be interested in dancing.
My first performance was back in the 70s when I partnered with a non-disabled friend to compete in a disco dance competition. At first the audience was hushed, but after our grand finale (my partner leaping over my wheelchair), the crowd was excited. We were alternates in the competition.
Soon after, people started asking if we’d like to perform in schools, nursing homes, etc.  We then got connected to the Cleveland Ballet and started forming a Company and dance classes.

Question: And that continues until today?
 

Answer: Yes, we have a company with a wide span of age ranges. Our youngest performer is 18, and our eldest is in his mid-50s.
In addition, we offer a special senior class on Wednesdays that is especially for seniors with developmental and/or physical disabilities. This group is just starting to do their own performances.

Question: Sabatino, tell us about your traditional holiday performance, “The Snowman.”
 

Answer: “The Snowman” is based on the children’s story by Raymond Briggs and the subsequent video based on the story with music by Howard Blake. It’s the story of a little boy who builds a snowman that comes to life. The boy and snowman first explore the boy’s world (inside his home) and then go on an outdoor adventure. The finale is at the North Pole, where the snowmen people welcome them.
My children love this story, and I’ve always wanted to create a ballet out of it. When I started working with Dancing Wheels, I thought that it was the perfect opportunity to do something different with the story. For instance, placing the little boy in a wheelchair (Mary plays him in the ballet).

Question: Creating a ballet and choreographing moves involving wheelchairs—that’s a relatively new approach to dance. How do you go about translating traditional ballet moves into moves for dancers with disabilities?
 

Answer: My job is part choreographer, part director. Sometimes I map out dance moves. Other times, I act more as a director, asking the wheeler to try something. Through improvisation, we usually hit upon something. And this is often dependent upon the abilities of the specific wheeler, which vary.

Question: Mary, where is “The Snowman” being performed? How can we attend?
 

Answer: “The Snowman” will be performed December 6-8 at the Tri-C Metro campus. There will also be a special matinee performance on Wednesday, December 4th for several nursing homes in the area.
Tri-C has indoor parking that connects to the auditorium, so access is easy.

Now that you’ve met her, I think you’ll agree. Mary Verdi-Fletcher is an energetic, inspirational woman. “The Snowman” will be performed at the Tri-C Metro Campus December 6th through the 8th. Thanks to Mary and her company’s generosity, mention Golden Opportunities and you’ll get a $10 discounted ticket. That’s a golden opportunity you won’t want to miss. My thanks to Mary and to Dancing Wheels Artistic Director Sabatino Verlezza.

For more information on this topic, call

Dancing Wheels

216-432-0306

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THE CLEVELAND PUBLIC LIBRARY'S MOBILE LIBRARY

 

Show 193

Air date: 11/30/02

Do you long to travel? Books can take you anywhere in the universe, and beyond. To Asia, Camelot, even outer space. Public libraries stand ready to serve as your launching pad. You won’t even need to leave your neighborhood, because the world can come to you. Here to tell us about the “novel idea” of a library on wheels is Linda Sperry, Manager of Mobile Services for the Cleveland Public Library.


Question: A bookmobile used to bring to mind a big van stuffed with novels. But the Cleveland Public Library’s new bookmobile is much more extensive than that, correct?
 

Answer: Yes. Actually, it’s called a Mobile Library because its services go beyond just bringing books to shut-ins. The mobile library has books, magazines, CDs, DVDs, videos, audiobooks and two internet terminals.
It’s a large vehicle—32 feet long.

Question: How long has the mobile library been in existence? How did it come about?
 

Answer: This week marks our first anniversary with this particular mobile library. The Cleveland Public Library used to have a long-running bookmobile service, but it was without one for 15 years until last year.
We received most of our funding from the Frederick W. and Henryett Slocum Judd Fund, which supports projects that serve the homebound.

Question: How do you go about fulfilling that mission? What kinds of stops does the mobile library make?

Answer: First, the library is accessible for seniors and those with disabilities. It has a wheelchair lift, and adaptive technology is available to enlarge print for books and the internet.
We do not do home delivery—we have a variety of community stops that rotate on a three-week schedule.  Stops include assisted living homes, senior centers, apartment buildings for seniors and those with disabilities, vocational guidance centers, shopping centers, etc.
Schedules are available at the branch libraries and by calling the number we’ll give out today.

Question: Are there other programs for seniors at the Cleveland Public Library?

Answer: An exciting new project for seniors is the “Senior Gateway to Information,” funded by a partnership of the Cleveland Foundation, the Senior Success Vision Council and United Way. The project will create a website that focuses on the diverse information needs of seniors, caregivers, professionals and the general public. The website will debut in 2003 and will be accompanied by programs to train seniors and caregivers in its use.
Many services are available for seniors at branches of the Cleveland Public Library. All branches have some form of adaptive technology, such as a Closed-Circuit Television to enlarge print. You may register for a Golden Buckeye card, pick up forms such as HEAP, Ohio Energy Credit, and you can register to vote. Branches carry Large Print books, audiobooks, and often have programs geared toward seniors.

The Mobile Library makes stops throughout Cleveland. To get a schedule and “book” a visit, call the number that’s coming up. My thanks to Linda Sperry.

For more information on this topic, call

Cleveland Public Library

216-623-7114

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FOLLOW YOUR DREAM - AT ANY AGE!

 

Show 194

Air date: 12/7/02

If you were raised in this area, our next guest has been an important part of your life. You probably wouldn’t recognize him if you ran into him on the street. But if you fondly remember those beautiful holiday window displays at Halle’s, or the Halle Players Theater Company, the Halle’s fashion shows, or Mr. Jingeling, then you’ll enjoy meeting Ron Newell.


Question: How did you first get involved in acting? Did you set out to be an actor?


Answer: My first foray into acting was back in 1956. I worked at Halle Brothers’ Department store as the person who worked on their window displays and animated windows.
Halle’s had their own “Halle Players Theatre Company” that would put on one play a year. I was talked into joining and made contacts with people in the Cleveland theatre community.
I continued working at Halle’s (evolving into a special events planner, which helped me get into theatre design) while working in community theatre, commercials and industrial movies.

Question: When Halle’s closed in 1982, you were 52. At that point, you started a whole new career in acting. What are some of the projects you have been involved in?
 

Answer: When Halle’s closed in 1982 I decided to work steadily in the theatre, and have been able to make a living doing such.
I’ve been involved in many productions at the Cleveland Play House, had a part in the “Jesse Owens Story,” a small part in “The Shawshank Redemption,” “House Guest” with Sinbad and the late Phil Hartman, and most recently the ABC movie of the week about the miners in Pennsylvania. I played the parson who gave a vigil prayer. That project was especially rewarding, as it covered what the families went through during this trying time.

Question: You had a part in the West Wing, which we have a clip of. Can you set up the clip? How did you get cast?
 

Answer: The clip is from the first show this season. Part of the West Wing staff is trying to catch up with the president on the campaign and got lost. I play a rather…unhelpful gas attendant.
The sequence (like the miners movie) was filmed on location near Pittsburgh. A lot of movies and television shows shoot there, and casting directors call agencies in nearby cities looking for talent.

Question: Can you tell us about your current project, “Other People’s Money?”
 

Answer: Right now I’m playing one of the lead roles in this play at the Ensemble Theatre in Cleveland Heights. The play is about the family-owned New England Wire and Cable Company that is facing a Wall Street Takeover.
I play Andrew Jorgenson, the owner of the company who is concerned about the families in town who work for his company.   It’s a very timely play!

Question: You’re now 72. Why do you still keep working?
 

Answer: I love it. It keeps me healthy and I enjoy meeting new people.

Shakespeare said all the world’s a stage. But you don’t have to leave Cleveland to see Ron on stage. This weekend he’s playing one of the leads in Other People’s Money at the Ensemble Theater in Cleveland Heights. The number to call for tickets is up next.

For more information on this topic, call

The Ensemble Theatre

216-321-2930

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UTILITY CHOICES

 

Show 195

Air date: 12/14/02

Paying the gas bill used to be so simple. But now we have lots of choices. It’s so confusing, you need a Ph.D to figure it out. Here to help us understand how to pick the gas choice that’ll save us the most money is Chris Verich from the Ohio Consumers’ Counsel.
 

Question: What brought about this change, and it this a positive development for the consumer?
 

Answer: The state of Ohio, when looking at rising energy costs, decided to allow private competition into the market to give consumers choices.
The idea is that competition will lower prices as various companies fight each other for business.

Question: So choice can be good, but what if we’re confused about what we are choosing? Where can people get information about the various companies that offer gas?
 

Answer: The Ohio Consumers’ Counsel has been formed to give you the information needed so that you can make an informed choice.
We offer a comparison chart that compares Columbia and Dominion with the other suppliers offered in your area. This chart is updated weekly.
We also offer a sheet of questions you would want to ask a prospective supplier you were considering.

Question: What are some of those questions/things to look for?
 

Answer: One of the main items to look for is the gas rate, which can be either fixed or variable. A fixed rate means that you will receive a certain gas rate over a period of time (6 months to a year) that is guaranteed—whether the gas rate goes up or down. A variable rate changes month by month.
Ask about fees. Is there a fee to switch to the service? Is there a cancellation fee if you want out to switch back early?
Even though you can choose your gas supplier, Dominion or Columbia still owns the gas lines. You should ask if you will receive a bill from your supplier (for your gas) and the other company (for use of the lines).

Question: With different possible fees and fixed or variable rates, how can we tell what the different choices can cost us?
 

Answer: We can give you a calculation chart where you simply plug in numbers to see which deal is the best.

Question: What other services does the Ohio Consumers’ Counsel offer?
 

Answer:  We have similar comparison charts for phone services and calling plans showing the differences between Ameritech and private companies.
We offer assistance programs to help those in need pay their gas and electric bills.

Gas choice is confusing. But it can save you a lot of money. Chris is offering two real helpful free brochures. Call the number to get them. Then if you still have questions, call again for help. My thanks to Chris Verich and the Ohio Consumers’ Counsel.

For more information on this topic, call

OCC Consumer Hotline

1-877-PICKOCC
www.pickocc.org

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NATIONAL COMMITTEE TO PRESERVE SOCIAL SECURITY AND MEDICARE

 

Show 195

Air date: 12/14/02

Is Social Security on life support? Can it be saved? Should it be privatized? Here to give us insight into the future of Social Security is Henry Barlow. Dr. Barlow is the former Director of Gerontological studies at Cleveland State University and today is here as state advocate representative for the National Committee to Preserve Social Security and Medicare.


Question: What is Social Security and why is it such a hot button issue/so important for seniors?
 

Answer: Social Security is our government’s social insurance, providing nearly universal coverage for workers and their families through a pooling of resources, benefits, and risk.
It offers disability benefits and retirement income. While it was never intended to cover all needs and hazards in retirement, its existence has become incredibly important in planning for our old age.
It used to be that most companies had a corporate/private pension benefit plan. You retired with the expectation of benefits based on your final average salary of your last three years.
Now, most people do not have such a pension plan. Rather, their retirement is based upon contributions (where you decide upon the amount contributed), and how well this money is managed.
Not everyone has the same education, skills, and understanding when it comes to investing. Social Security is important because it fills this gap.

Question: What is the state of Social Security? Is it going to run out?
 

Answer: Right now, the projections show that the Social Security trust fund will have a surplus until the year 2016.
Projections also indicate that the fund will be totally depleted by around the year 2040.

Question:   Why is Social Security in trouble? Why the fear that it will be depleted?
 

Answer:  With the baby boomers reaching retirement age, the ratio of workers (who add to the fund) and retirees (who take from the fund) is dropping.
However, we cannot be certain yet that depletion will occur. More and more seniors are staying in the workforce. Also, immigration continues, adding to a stronger workforce as well. So things might not be so dire.

Question: There are lots of different plans to “save Social Security.” What are some of them, and what downfalls/advantages do they have?
 

Answer:  One of the main being proposed is privatization of Social Security. A portion of one’s contributions would be put into a private account where they would have responsibility for the investments.
Potential problems with privatization include:

  1. Again, people with less knowledge of investing will not do as well with private accounts.

  2. Privatization brings up many issues for women. Women still make just a little over 70% of the salary men do. They take more time off work for caregiving. This makes it more difficult to contribute money to private accounts.

  3. There would be huge administrative costs involved with making such a widespread change in Social Security, and these costs could eat up the benefits.

Another proposal to save Social Security is to slowly increase the age at which one receives full benefits. This process is already underway.
And a last idea is to change the level of benefits.
The philosophical questions behind which changes will be made is whether we feel there is a social responsibility, across generations, to meet our needs together or whether independent competition is the answer.

Question: If our viewers are interested in getting involved and informed in the issues surrounding Social Security, what can they do?
 

Answer: I am a volunteer representative for the National Committee to Preserve Social Security and Medicare. The National Committee is a bi-partisan organization whose purpose is to preserve Social Security and Medicare, endorsing candidates who feel similarly.
It costs $10 to join. You receive publications, are kept abreast of debates and proposals pending in Congress, and are invited to be active in the political process and the community.

How Social Security will look in the future depends on using our voices now. In a moment, we’ll tell you how you can contact the National Committee to Preserve Social Security and Medicare, so you can get all those mailings. My thanks to Henry Barlow.

For more information on this topic, call

National Committee to Preserve Social Security and Medicare

1-800-966-1935
www.ncpssm.org

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DOWNSIZING TO DOWNTOWN

Show #196
 Air date: 12/28/02

The kids have finally left the nest. The dog died. You’re tired of cutting the grass and shoveling the driveway. This new year might be the ideal time to downsize. But before you start packing your belongings for a condo in the burbs or in Florida, have you considered downtown? That’s right, downtown. Here to give us the lowdown on the advantages of downtown is Jerry Polansky, Vice President of Property Managment for Landmark Management, and he’s a downtown resident.

 

Question: Why should we consider downsizing to downtown?

 

Answer: Unique neighborhood, near sports, fine restaurants, bars, unique retail all within walking distance.
And you save time and money. No commute to work. Save on auto, gas, parking.
 

Question: Here in Cleveland, to be honest we don’t think about living downtown as a rule. Why should we?
 

Answer:  You know, downtown is a neighborhood with a distinct flavor just like all the other neighborhoods in the greater Cleveland area. It’s not really mysterious.
It’s just that this neighborhood houses professional sports teams, 8-10 of the finest restaurants in the area, and bars/retail tenants, etc. all within walking distance.

Question:   Is living downtown a good idea for empty nesters?
 

Answer: If you are still working, you save in automobile and parking expenses—and you can sleep in!
For seniors, there is no yard work to deal with, and help is just a phone call away. If your hot water tank breaks, call and we’ll get it fixed. You don’t have the responsibilities of home ownership.
I use the example of a SUV. Everyone wants an SUV because it looks like a truck and runs like a car. These downtown apartments are similar. They look like a warehouse but have the conveniences of a home.

Question:   What are the price ranges?
 

Answer:  Apartments range in price from $595 to $3000/month.

Question:   I know that a lot of people have concerns about living downtown—security, parking, conveniences…

Answer: We have had no greater number of security incidents in our downtown buildings than in the buildings we own in the suburbs. There is a heightened police presence in downtown.
There are several guest parking lots that are patrolled and have reasonable rates around these apartments, for your guests to use. Our Bridgeview Apartment building, for example, has an indoor heated parking lot with security.
Within the Bridgeview apartments there is a beauty salon, dry cleaner, boutique and art gallery. All of these conveniences are within your own building.
Plus, we are currently making arrangements with the restaurants in the area so that our apartment employees can pick up takeout food for our residents.

Downsizing to Downtown is a downright interesting idea. It’s a new year. Maybe it’s time to try a new lifestyle. If you’d like more information, give Jerry Polansky a call.

For more information on this topic, call

Landmark Management

216-781-8510 extension 230

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WHAT DO THE RECENT ELECTIONS MEAN TO SENIORS?

Show #197

Air date: 1/4/03

We have new legislators running our federal and state governments. What will this mean for the future of Social Security? Will we get any meaningful prescription drug cost relief? Here to provide her insights is senior advocate Belle Likeover. Belle has worked with a number of senior groups like AARP, she’s currently Chair of the Council on Older Persons of the Federation for Community Planning, and she’s a lifetime trustee of the Western Reserve Area Agency on Aging.

Question: What is the biggest change we can expect from our newly elected legislatures?
 

Answer: Now, all the branches of the government on the federal level, and here in Ohio on the state level, are held by one party—the Republican party. They will be controlling which issues will be on the agenda.
When control is split between the two parties, there’s a better chance that we will hear multiple approaches to the problems facing seniors—two different views get on the floor.

Question: What are some of the issues seniors want to have addressed?
 

Answer: According to a recent AARP survey, seniors are most concerned about Prescription Drugs and Social Security.

Question: Let’s start with prescription drugs. The debate about a prescription drug plan has been going on for a long time. Will anything likely happen?
 

Answer: People have said that politics have kept a prescription drug plan from taking shape, but I really think that it’s really a fundamental difference in the way each party approaches the issue.
Democrats want a prescription drug plan to go through Medicare. Republicans want it to come from private insurance companies. Privatization is just a very different approach.

Question: Is this also a state issue?
 

Answer: Yes. In Ohio, a new prescription drug card came out on January 1st. However, it’s very different from what the original promises were.
There was another more comprehensive bill that never got out of committee in the Ohio legislature called Ohio Prescription Fair Drug Pricing.
A petition to try and force this bill on the table was due on December 18th. The state legislature now has four months to bring the bill to the floor.
 

Question: What's the Ohio Prescription Fair Drug Planning Act?

Answer: A good bill to cut costs. It would empower the state to negotiate with drug companies. It has never gotten out of committee and onto the floor.

Question: But that’s a Democrat bill, so it won’t go anywhere?

Answer: A statewide petition is circulating by AARP and other senior groups to force the legislature to vote on it.

Question: And what are some of the concerns seniors have about Social Security?
 

Answer: There has been a lot of talk about privatization, but this change cannot be done without a tremendous loss of resources, and seniors overwhelmingly to not want to see privatization.
Social Security won’t go broke—but after 2030 it will not have the funds to pay out at the same level as it currently does.
Privatization of Social Security is definitely on the agenda of the current administration but likely won’t be brought up this year due to the poor stock market.

Seniors can’t afford to retire from getting involved in the political process. You need to learn about the issues that are important for your security, and you must let your politicians know what you think. Start by contacting the AARP. They’ll alert you to legislative actions affecting seniors both on the federal and state levels. My thanks to seniors advocate Belle Likover.

For more information on this topic, log on to

www.aarp.org

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SAY IT WITH FLOWERS

Show #202

Air date: 2/9/03

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. If you’re tired of sending cards and chocolate, we have a fresh way to say “I Love You.” Here to explain the fuss about tussie-mussies is garden writer and expert Thea Steinmetz.


Question: What is a tussie-mussie?
Answer: A tussie-mussie is a small bouquet of fragrant flowers and herbs. It may also be called a nosegay or a small bouquet.  It is bigger than a boutonniere but smaller than a bunch of flowers.

Question:   When did people first start making tussie-mussies?
 

Answer: The custom of giving a tussie-mussie goes way back to Elizabethan days. It was considered a serviceable bouquet and it was carried to act as a disinfectant. Lavender, rosemary and rue were among the herbs believed to ward off disease.

Question:   That doesn’t sound very romantic! When did the tussie-mussie start to change in meaning?
 

Answer: The focus changed with the Victorian age and the tussie-mussie gained great popularity. Since it could be held and carried about, it became the height of fashion.
The Victorians were very fond of attaching meaning to flowers and herbs and thus the language of flowers and herbs was born. Every flower and herb conveyed a meaning of its own. For example, a red rose was for love, and a daisy was for innocence.
Today, we give a tussie-mussie to people we honor and love. It is a symbol that we care for them and want to share the fragrance, the beauty and meaning of the flowers and herbs we weave into each tussie-mussie. A perfect offering for Valentine’s Day.

Question: How do you make a tussie-mussie?
 

Answer:

  • To assemble a tussie-mussie, one must start with a rose at the center, preferably a bud. 

  • Add a circle of fragrant green herbs, turning as stems are added. 

  • For color add small flowers such as lavender, violets or any flower in season. Repeat the process.

  • Tie with wool or cotton before going to the next step.

  • Vary the flowers and greens in color for a pleasing effect. Use contrast in texture, shape and color for best results. A larger leaf, such as ladies mantle, can be added as the last row all around. It gives the effect of a green cuff.

  • For a firm shape tie again and slip the stems through a hole made in the middle of a paper or lace doily.

  • The doily is held in place by adding a complementary ribbon and bow.

  • The tussie-mussie will stay fresh for several days when placed in water.

Modern version—with dried flowers or even silk flowers when the real ones are out of season.
 

Question: Flowers have meanings.  Can you give us few examples?

Answer:

  • Red Rose: Love

  • Gladiolas: Strength of character

  • White Geranium: Graceful

  • Sage: Long life

  • Mint: Good health

  • Yellow Rose: Distrust

  • Dead Leaves: Sadness

Flowers can say “I Love You.” Or a bunch of other sentiments too. Thea has shown us how you can make your own tussie-mussie for your special someone. Need a little more help? Thea will be making them at the Home and Garden Show at the IX Center on Valentine’s Day afternoon. Or you can get an instruction sheet. We’ll tell you how. A flowery thanks to Thea Steinmetz.

Click here for a printable instruction sheet to make your own Tussie-Mussies!

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50 SOMETHING MAGAZINE

Show #204

Air date: 2/23/03

If you’re fifty something, and then some, and live in this area, there’s a special publication that’s just for you.  And we’ve got the magazine’s cover girl, the former First Lady of The Cleveland Indians, Sharon Hargrove. Sharon’s here to tell us why 50 something can be fantastic.


Question: If you’re 50-Something, or more, in the Cleveland area, there’s a special publication that’s just for you, and we’ve got the lady on the cover with us today to tell us why fifty can be fantastic, Sharon Hargrove. Sharon, what’s Fifty Something Magazine, and what’s inside?
 

Answer: For the past year, Fifty Something Magazine has given health and social information, information on services, and fun features to Clevelanders aged 50 and over.
We like to say that Fifty Something Magazine is a “publication written by its readers.” Our authors are freelance writers from all over the country who like to tell stories, memories, and nostalgic tales and features.

Question: How often does the magazine come out? How can we get a copy?
 

Answer: The magazine comes out quarterly.  It’s available at newsstands around town—there is information on subscriptions inside each copy.  Call the phone number at the end of the segment.

Question:   Well, as we’ve seen, you and your husband Mike have graced the cover. Has becoming “fifty something” been a big adjustment for you?
 

Answer: There was never an age where I thought, “Ooo…this is different.” But I have seen that I’ve slowed down quite a bit. I think you tend to give yourself a break a bit—you don’t pressure yourself to be perfect. And allow yourself to say no once in awhile.  You’re not afraid to ask for help from people you admire.  You also rearrange your priorities and focus on what’s really important to you, and you become more blunt. My grandmother was like that, and always said as you get older, you have every right to have an opinion. And now I understand what she meant.

Question: One of those priorities that changes, well, grows up, as we get older is our family. How’s yours doing?
 

Answer: Well. It’s hard when Mike’s gone for a good part of the year, but we’re staying in Cleveland.  Our two oldest daughters are married and are settled in Northeast Ohio. We have another daughter who works in Cleveland and a 13-year-old at home.  Our son is in college in Oklahoma and is playing baseball there.

Question: Another one of your priorities continues to be Our Lady of the Wayside. Can you tell us a bit about that charity?

Answer: Yes, we’ve been involved for the past 25 years with Our Lady of the Wayside. They give physically and mentally challenged adults the opportunity to live in supervised homes to improve their quality of life. They also help them get employment.  They started with 2 homes, now they have around 50.

You’ve just heard Sharon Hargrove share a bit of her life and her insights. And that’s what you get with Fifty Something Magazine. Why not pick one up and check it out. It’s available at newsstands, or you can call the number that’s coming up. My thanks to Sharon Hargrove.

For more information on this topic, call

Fifty Something Magazine

440-953-2200

For a free sample copy of "Fifty Something Magazine", send a 9 x 12 self-addressed stamped envelope (three stamps should do it!) to:

 

Fifty Something Magazine

7533 Tyler Blvd.

Mentor, OH  44060

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MEDICAID FREEZE

Show #211

Air date: 4/20/03

It’s been all over the news. Ohio has a budget mess. One of the key components of the Republicans’ plan to balance the budget is a freeze on Medicaid payments to nursing homes. Will this affect the care for Ohio’s most vulnerable citizens? Here to answer is Peter Van Runkle, President of the Ohio Health Care Association.


Question: Elderly Ohioans who need long term care face a myriad of difficult issues, but what is currently the most pressing issue they face?


Answer: The Governor is proposing to freeze Medicaid payments to long term care providers for two years to balance the state budget.
 

Question: For a person in a nursing home, how much of that person's actual costs are currently covered my Medicaid?

Answer: 93%. $150/day.
 

Question: So there's already a gap between a person's actual costs and Medicaid coverage.  How much will that gap grow in the next 2 years?

Answer: Nursing homes will lose $10/day in year one, $19/day in year 2.
 

Question: What services will this proposed cut affect?

Answer:  Medicaid is critically important to Ohio’s elderly and chronically disabled citizens. The program is not just for the poor—it pays for close to 70% of all nursing home care and 100% of the care delivered in facilities for people with mental retardation and developmental disabilities.
Freezing Medicaid for two years will freeze payments to health care providers, but not their costs, meaning that facilities will have to cut back. It is estimated that $500 million dollars will be withheld over the two-year period.
Governor Taft’s proposed budget cuts would be devastating to this vulnerable population, as well as many others who depend on Medicaid.
 

Question: Let’s focus on long-term care in nursing facilities. What kind of cuts will they likely have to make?
 

Answer: 75% of the cost of running a nursing home goes toward hiring and keeping well-trained health care employees. As a result, a cut in Medicaid funding would necessitate a cut in number of staff, wages, or benefits offered.
There is already a shortage of nurses in the field, and high turnover in nurse assistant positions that are entry level. An already existing staffing crisis will be made worse.

Question: What affect on care will a cut in staffing have?
 

Answer: There will be fewer caregivers available to take care of nursing home residents.  Their call lights will not be answered as quickly.  They will not receive as much help with eating, and they will not get the personal attention they deserve.

Question:   Besides staffing, what other changes will likely have to be made to adjust to the cuts?

Answer: The living environment might not be as clean (less manpower to clean up quickly).  Necessary remodeling or building additions will not occur.  Residents will have to go without dental care and other important services.
Nursing homes might not be able to admit people who require expensive treatment, meaning these patients will have to stay in hospitals for a longer period of time.
Some long term care facilities will have to close, and their residents will have to move, sometimes farther away from their family and friends.
 

Question: I know that the Ohio Health Care Association has been trying to stop these cuts from occurring. What kind of process have you been going through?
 

Answer:  We’ve been talking to legislators and trying to educate them on the problems such cuts will bring.

Question:   When will the budget be finalized?
 

Answer: Everything must be finished by June 30th.
 

Question:   What can our viewers do if they want to help stop these cuts?
 

Answer: Call your legislators and ask them to oppose the governor’s proposed freeze on Medicaid.


State Legislators:
1-800-282-0253



Text of Governor’s 3/26 Letter to the Editor in The Plain Dealer:

The recent Plain Dealer articles on nursing homes in Ohio correctly point out a fundamental problem in Ohio’s current approach to long-term care.

For nearly a decade, growth in senior care has been toward home and community settings. In fact, the number of home and community placements for seniors and people with disabilities has increased from about 11,000 in 1992 to 42,000 today.

Nursing-home demand has declined. The percentage of empty nursing-home beds doubled from eight percent in 1993 to 16 percent today. Taxpayers, however, were required by law to spend $180 million more on nursing homes from 2001 to 2002, even while beds were going unused.

Something is wrong here. I propose freezing nursing home reimbursement rates at their current level while we rewrite the law that insulates nursing homes from changes in consumer demand. Secondly, I propose rewriting the regulations to tie quality of care to the amount a nursing home receives from taxpayers.

Addressing an outdated approach to nursing homes is long overdue.

For more information on this topic, call

Ohio Health Care Association

www.ohca.org

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EMPTY NEST SYNDROME

Show #215

Air date: 6/1/03

The kids have finally left the nest. At last, it’s just the two of you. How romantic. Or is it? Did you know that the divorce rate actually spikes up after children fly the coop? Here to ensure that you and your spouse remain lovebirds, is Kathy Dawson from the Marriage Movement.

 

Question: One would think that your marriage could only “pick up” spice when the kids leave the nest. But the divorce rate actually spikes after children fly the coop. Why?
 

Answer:  Many couples struggle because they haven’t paid attention to each other while they were raising their kids. All of their communication has centered around the raising of the children and not around their own relationship with each other.  The children could have even acted as buffers for the problems in the parents’ relationship.

 

Question:   And when the children leave, these problems come to the forefront?

 

Answer: Many times it does, for several reasons. First, both the mother and father may have invested so much of their identity in being a parent that now they don’t know themselves outside of being “Tom’s Mother” or “Tom’s Father.” Let alone their identity as a couple.
Just as children may experience “separation anxiety” on their first day of school, parents may experience this when their kids leave home, especially mothers.
The energy in the house changes when a child leaves, and there is a sense of loss or grief. Allow yourself, and your partner, to feel sad. Don’t downplay it.
 

Question:   So after that period of adjustment, what should couples do to get back on track?
 

Answer: I recommend both individual and couples counseling, so that parents can work on themselves and their relationship.
Communicate. If you can’t find something to talk about, talk about why you are not talking.
Find a hobby or activity you can do together as a couple—sailing, board games, etc. (Kathy and her husband play Scrabble).
Stay spontaneous. You have more freedom and flexibility to change your routines now that the kids are away.
And always have goals as a couple. Look into the future—will you move South after your retirement? Do you want to travel? Is working part-time a goal?
 

Question:   Sometimes we’re just too busy to find time to communicate or participate in a hobby. How can we go about finding time?
 

Answer: There’s a three-step formula. First, set aside a date night once a week. This should be just you and your spouse—no friends or neighbors who could act as buffers.
Every three months, go on what I call a “minimoon,” one night or weekend out of your home environment, even if it’s at a bed and breakfast in town.
Once a year, take a vacation as a couple. Family vacations don’t count.

For many couples, when the kids come, romance goes. Now that the kids have gone, it’s time to bring romance back. You may have to work at it, but nothing wonderful comes easy. Kathy’s tips can help. Scrabble and minimoons, what could be bad? For more information, give the Marriage Movement a call. We’ll be right back.

For more information on this topic, call

The Marriage Movement

216-932-5016
marriagemovement.com

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SENIORS CONNECT WEBSITE

Show #218

Air date: 6/15/03

There are lots of services available for seniors. But tracking them down, that’s like hunting for buried treasure, without a map! While there’s no “x” to mark the spot, there’s a www, a website. Here to help us dig up a treasure trove of services is Lois Goodman, Co-Chair of the Senior Vision Council.

 

Question: There are a lot of senior websites out there, but this one is special—it can supply seniors in the greater Cleveland area with a lot of good local information. How did the website come about?

 

Answer: A couple years ago, the United Way, the Cleveland Foundation, and other agencies recognized that the Health and Human Services planning for the region was fragmented across a wide range of agencies and could be more efficient if the agencies worked together to provide services.
The Community Vision Council was formed to help set priorities and raise money for health and human services. The main focuses are families and children, education and employment, health, and senior services.
A priority for the Senior Success arm of the Vision Council is to provide accurate information EASILY to people who need it. Tons of information is available for senior services, but they are often hard to find. The website, www.seniorsconnect.org, provides one-stop information for both seniors and the people who care for them. The site is managed by the Cleveland Public Library.

Question:   What information is found on the website?
 

Answer: A broad range of topics including support for caregivers, employment and volunteer opportunities, health, legal, and financial information, home and living options, leisure activities, senior organizations, and current events.
United Way’s First Call for Help is now entirely online.
Not only does seniorsconnect.org link to websites, it is also interactive. Seniors can ask questions and receive answers within 24 hours.
The website is a work in progress—new links will be added over time, as will a chat room.
You can even find a link to Golden Opportunities at the site!
 

Question: Do most seniors have enough computer savvy to navigate the site?
 

Answer: Many seniors are online. 13% of those over 65 have computers at home. But lots use at libraries and senior centers.  And the next wave of seniors in the future, the baby boomers, are very computer literate.
The site offers online tutorials to help those who are having difficulties. In addition, we are coordinating with the Fairhill Center for the Aging to develop computer classes for seniors throughout the area.
 

Question: Besides the website, what other projects is the Senior Success Vision Council working on?

Answer: We’re trying to improve the transportation system for seniors, so that they can keep their independence after they stop driving. Again, current efforts are scattered. A centralized system would have one phone number seniors can call for assistance. It would also lower the cost of purchasing and maintaining vehicles.
Another priority is to improve the quantity and quality of caregivers. There is a tremendous shortage, and many do not find caregiving to be a desirable profession. Tri-C is working to change that perception.

As you can see, the Senior Success Vision Council has a new, high tech vision for the future of senior services in Northeast Ohio. Be sure to check out their website for more information. My thanks to Lois Goodman.

For more information on this topic, call

Senior Gateway Project

216-623-2902
seniorsconnect.org

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DOWNSIZING TO A SMALLER HOME

Show #220

Air date: 7/13/03

You’re moving to a smaller place. Maybe to a condo in Florida, to an apartment around the corner, or to assisted living. How can you fit everything into a residence half the size of your current place? And how can you pick which of your lifetime treasures to keep, and which to discard? Today we have an expert who may be able to help. Linda Huska is the owner of the Nesting Company.


Question: You’re moving down south, moving in with your kids, or entering assisted living. These are major life changes—and dealing with downsizing your belongings at the same time can add to the overwhelming feeling. Linda, is downsizing difficult emotionally as well as being just a chore of clearing out your home?
 

Answer: Yes, we’ve found that in most cases, the senior does not want to leave the home—it’s often a crisis situation, or the upkeep of the home has become too much for the person to handle.
Even when the move is voluntary and exciting, like moving South, going through your belongings and seeing what you have to leave behind is an emotionally charged situation.
Family and friends often have a problem being objective about the belongings. That’s where it becomes very helpful to have an objective, but sensitive, outsider come in to help.
 

Question:   When you go into a downsizing situation, what’s the first step?
 

Answer: First, it’s important to see how much of the current belongings can be kept. We do this by measuring their furniture and getting the dimensions for the home/apartment they are moving into, as well as the location of all phone and cable lines.
A floor plan can visually show what can be moved, and where it can be placed.
People are usually pleased with how much of their stuff CAN be moved and be kept.
It’s helpful to tag all the furniture, number it by room and provide a furniture legend.
Keeping the stress level down when sorting what you can keep and what you cannot is important. While sorting, keep your time down to four hours a day. Any more would really add to the stress.
 

Question: What about the day of moving?
 

Answer: It’s EXTREMELY helpful to have someone in charge of coordinating the move. That helps the movers do their job quickly and efficiently.
 

Question: Seniors often move to make life easier or simpler, but the chore of unpacking can be a nightmare in and of itself! What can we do to make it easier?
 

Answer: Having a plan of where items will go of course helps.  Don’t try to unpack more than four hours a day—it becomes too much physically. Take some time to settle in.
If The Nesting Company helps you move, we will come the day or week after the move to help you get settled.
The important thing is to make the move a healthy, non-stressful experience.

 

Question: Where do the things go that you don't take?

 

Answer: Family, resale shops, House sale liquidations, charities

Question: Do you help identify valuables?

 

Answer: We can get an appraiser if needed.

I could never move. All my stuff are treasures. But sometimes you have to downsize. And as tough as that is, it’s good to know there’s help available. My thanks to Linda Huska.

For more information on this topic, call

The Nesting Company

440-988-2103

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CLEVELAND DEPARTMENT OF AGING

Show #223

Air date: 8/3/03

The Cleveland Department of Aging offers a treasure trove of resources to Cleveland seniors. Here to help unbury the treasures, and explain what’s new on the horizon is Jane Fumich, Director of the Cleveland Department of Aging.


Question: What have you found most seniors in Cleveland to need, and how does the Cleveland Department of Aging help them to meet those needs?
 

Answer: We’ve found that most seniors need to link up with supportive services to continue living independently in their own homes.
Often a neighbor, someone from a senior’s church, or a council member will alert us to a senior in need.
Our geriatric outreach workers assess an older person’s needs and then link them up with services that can help, whether that be setting them up with Home Delivered Meals, getting their electricity turned back on, or preventing financial exploitation.
 

 

Question: What programs does the city have in place to assist seniors?
 

Answer: CHORE: Chore Workers provide home maintenance tasks that may include housework, lawn mowing, simple repairs and installation of smoke detectors and/or carbon monoxide detectors. Group transportation for grocery shopping can also be provided.
Senior Strives is a program that helps seniors conduct a successful job search, including help with resume development and job training.
Senior Power Workshops are held in cooperation with the Division of Police, the Division of Fire, and Emergency Medical Services. They help seniors avoid scams, look for fire hazards, and explain what to expect if they have a medical emergency.
The Senior Homeowner Assistance Program gives grants to low-income seniors who own and reside in homes needing critical health, safety or maintenance repairs. Typical repairs include: roof repair or replacement, major electrical work, major plumbing work, repair or replacing the front and/or back steps, porch repairs, and the installation ramps.
 

Question:   Who’s eligible for these programs?

 

Answer: Low and moderate-income seniors who live in the city of Cleveland.  The specific requirements for eligibility for each program are different. If you call the Department of Aging, we can give you more specific information.

 

Question:   What’s going on right now for Cleveland seniors? Anything new?
 

Answer: We are conducting a series of Predatory Lending Workshops that will be taking place now and through October. Predatory Lending gets folks hooked into loans they can’t repay, jeopardize home. Seniors are often targets.
Benefits Check-up.
Big event is the Cleveland Senior Summer College, in connection with Cuyahoga Community College and the Cleveland Foundation. Held on Thursday, August 7th, it’s a day of education courses designed specifically for seniors. We hope to eventually build this event into the Cleveland Senior Summer Institute. Attendees do have to register ahead of time.

The Cleveland Department of Aging is a wonderful resource. To find out how you can qualify to get your lawn mowed, have repairs made, and attend a variety of educational programs, give Jane’s office a call. And if you don’t live in Cleveland, don’t despair. Other communities offer programs for seniors, too. Give your City Hall a call.

For more information on this topic, call

Cleveland Department of Aging

216-664-2833

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LONG TERM CARE OMBUDSMAN

Show #223

Air date: 8/3/03

Where can you find out about alternatives to a nursing home? If your loved one does need a nursing home, how can you find the right one, the best one? And if you believe your loved one is being neglected or abused in a nursing home, where can you go to complain? The answer to all these questions is the Long Term Care Ombudsman. And here with me today is the Executive Director, Dr. Richard Martin.

 

Question: Discussing and choosing long term care options is an important, and difficult decision. There’s so much information out there—how can we know what’s reliable?
 

Answer:  The amount of sources of information available concerning the types of and quality of long term care has exploded in recent years, especially with the number of web-based and phone-based services that are now in effect.
This information explosion can be helpful, but it can also be misleading (poor sources with incorrect data) or just plain confusing.
Some good, accurate sources are:

Question: But as you said, even if the information is accurate, it may be hard to find yourself pointed in the right direction and researching the right services. But the Long Term Care Ombudsman can help give a professional opinion, right?

 

Answer: Yes, we have a telephone Options program where you can call our office and phone counselors can act as a librarian of sorts, accessing a large database of services that can fit your or your loved ones exact needs.
We strive for two things when helping to find long term care solutions: maximizing the quality of care (recommending nice, safe facilities) and maximizing quality of life. Our counselors will help you find the least restrictive form of long term care that can work in your health, family, and financial situations. You might not have to jump directly to a nursing home setting. There might be options that are less institutionalized, especially if you have more flexibility financially.
 

Question: When is the right time to call the long term care ombudsman?
 

Answer: So many people wait until there’s a crisis situation—a loved one’s being released after a hospitalization and needs long term care. But that’s NOT the ideal situation.
It would be helpful, if long term care seems to be on the horizon, for family members to gather around and discuss what resources are available (time and effort on the part of the family, financial resources, etc.) BEFORE a crisis arrives.
People are often surprised and dismayed that many good facilities have waiting lists, and that they might not be able to get in to a facility whose location or cultural sensitivity would be preferable.
 

Question: The long term care ombudsman also has an extremely important duty once long term care IS secured—handling complaints residents of long term care facilities have. What kinds of complaints do you handle? How can you help?
 

Answer: We handle complaints that range from billing problems to abuse and neglect.
We do not have enforcement powers like the police or the Department of Health. Rather, we act as mediators to not only resolve the issue for that particular complaint but to affect policies that will change the system for the better.
The long term care ombudsman takes direction from the resident who has a complaint or their proxy. The resident decides whether the goal is to stay in that facility or to explore other options.
We have a team of social workers, attorneys, former nursing home executives, nurses and volunteer associates who act as advocates for long term care residents.
 

Question: What steps do you take once you receive a complaint?

 

Answer:

  • Intake–get information

  • Prioritize. We go right out if probably physical harm.

  • Send investigator. Interview the resident and staff.

  • If needed, go to enforcement agency, attorney, government official.

If you or a loved one needs long term care, you have a friend, an advocate. If you need information about alternatives to nursing homes; if you want to find out about which nursing homes have lots of complaints; and if your family member is not getting good care in a facility, call the long term care ombudsman.

For more information on this topic, call

Long Term Care Ombudsman

1-800-365-3112

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CLEVELAND SENIORS WEBSITE

Show #224

Air date: 8/10/03

So you have questions that have stumped your friends and neighbors . . . Questions like: Whatever happened to Mike Douglas? Where are the best Chinese restaurants in Cleveland? How can I get help with caregiving for my mom? We have good news! The answers to these questions, and a whole lot more, are as near as your fingertips. Just head to a computer and type www dot Cleveland Seniors dot com. You’ll discover a whole new world of information tailored to fit your interests. Here to help us tap into all the fun and facts is Deborah Hanson.

 

Question: How long has ClevelandSeniors.com been in existence? Why have a website specifically for seniors?

 

Answer:  ClevelandSeniors.com has been around since September 2000—we are nearing our third birthday. The website was founded because there are SO much senior information on the web that we would try to narrow it down to one place that could cover all the aspects of senior life.
Cleveland ranks 8th in the country when it comes to the amount of senior citizens who are online. Seniors are a tough group—they’ve lived through the Depression, segregation, Vietnam…they’re not afraid to try something new like the internet. And many start off emailing children and grandchildren who live far away. So plenty are online looking for information that pertains to them.
In addition, younger caregivers are also looking for help, and they check us out too.
 

Question:   What types of resources are available online at ClevelandSeniors.com?
 

Answer:  We have a variety of experts who you can email anonymously and ask questions, including the topics of health, mental health, fitness, volunteering, gardening…even how to get organized.
We also have recipes, crafts, book and movie reviews, lists of what’s going on around town, and a virtual store where seniors can buy and sell items locally.
 

Question: Sounds like you have recreational aspects to the website as well as information.
 

Answer: Yes. We have stories, jokes, riddles and trivia. An advice column called “Dear Webby.” Short profiles of interesting senior Clevelanders—famous people like Jane Scott and Dante Lavelli as well as “guy next door” types who have done interesting things (i.e. Marshall Bedol, who creates TV trays for Presidential Inaugurations that are given to all the attendees).
We also have polls where viewers can participate.
 

Question: Can you give us a couple of senior survey examples?

 

Answer: Favorite Singer: Tony Bennett
Frank Sinatra
Beatles
Elvis

Favorite TV Comedy: Lucy
Honeymooners
All In The Family
Mary Tyler Moore
 

Question: Are there enough seniors "on-line" to sustain all these websites?

 

Answer: Yes. Cleveland is 8th in number of seniors online. They often start with e-mail.

We get 200,000 page hits/month, 1,000 people/day.

Here’s a survey question for you. Will you enjoy visiting Cleveland Seniors dot Com? My guess is the answer will be yes. Why not try it yourself, after the show’s over. My thanks to Deborah Hanson.

For more information on this topic

ClevelandSeniors.com

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KENDAL AT OBERLIN

Show #227

Air date: 8/31/03

The grandkids have headed back to school. But you don’t have to feel left behind. You can go to college, and enjoy all the pleasure and stimulation, with none of the pain. And you can do it all right from the comfort of your home. Here to tell us about an innovative twist on retirement communities is Barbara Thomas, Executive Director of Kendal at Oberlin, and Jane and George Hannauer, Kendal residents.

 

Question: When we hear about “retirement homes,” I think a lot of people picture something close to a nursing home. But that’s not necessarily true. Who is looking into retirement communities nowadays?

 

Answer: Many traditional retirement communities attract residents well into their 80’s. This is the norm.
Last year, the largest group of incoming residents to Kendal were in their 60’s. This is unusual because our average age of entry is 75.
 

Question: Why this change?

 

Answer: People are planning for retirement and making decisions earlier.  Retirees want to stay active and socially connected, and that’s what is drawing them, early, to a retirement community.  In addition, they are also looking for security, especially concerning possible future health care needs. At Kendal, we do have a continuum of care available to those who have the need.

 

Question: Jane and George Hannauer are Kendal residents. What led you to come to Kendal? What are the features you like the most?

 

Answer: A close friend moved in to Kendal when it first opened at Oberlin, and greatly enjoyed it. They are Oberlin alumni, so that attracted them too.

George had a heart transplant two years ago and was pushed into retirement, deciding that it was time to make the move.

They are pleased by their decision, and life at Kendal, where Jane says, “you are not allowed to be unhealthful and inactive.” You are strongly encouraged to get involved in activities based on your own interests. For example, Jane plays the violin, and has gotten involved in the local string orchestra. Courses are also held at Kendal—Jane and George took one they enjoyed greatly on Islam.
Also, Kendal’s nursing facility is easily accessible—on the way to the dining room! No one, even those requiring more care, is isolated.

 

Question: You mentioned a desire to be socially connected. Is a community associated with a college (like Kendal is with Oberlin) especially able to meet that desire?

 

Answer: We do have easy access to all campus activities such as concerts, speakers, etc. (Five blocks away from campus).
Kendal itself offers 75 “Committees of Interest” for residents to become involved in. Examples of such activities include the League of Women Voters, exercise, flower arrangements, play readings, travel clubs, environmental concerns, and volunteering groups.
Also, a small college town lends itself to socialization. Everyone knows everyone else, and it’s easy to get involved with the greater community-at-large. We’ve had residents sit on city council and the Board of Education, and many want to volunteer at the local parks and the Historical Society.
 

Question: How many residents are at Kendal? Are most alumni of the college?

Answer: There are over 300 residents.  Forty percent have some tie to the college, but over half do not.


Retirement communities at college campuses. These give a whole new meaning to our “senior year.” To find out more about this stimulating lifestyle, give Kendal a call, or check out their website. My thanks to Barbara Thomas and Jane and George Hannauer.

For more information on this topic, call

Kendal at Oberlin

1-800-548-9469
kao.kendal.org

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PETS FOR THE ELDERLY

Show #227

Air date: 8/31/03

How’d you like a new friend who will always be excited when you walk in the door, who will never say anything to hurt you, and who will help you stay healthy? Pets, pets make great companions for seniors. And there’s an organization whose pet project is to help find you just the right pet for you. With us today is Sue Ellen Wilson, Executor Director of Pets for the Elderly, Jennifer Hart, Manager of Development.

Question: Dogs and cats might be man’s best friend, but companionship is often especially necessary for seniors. But sometimes, pets can be too expensive or too overwhelming for a senior. But Pets for the Elderly can help seniors get the companionship they need, right?

Answer: Yes. Pets for the Elderly helps to match seniors with appropriate pets through our work with participating animal shelters in 32 states. Locally, we work with the Animal Protective League and the Geauga and Akron Human Societies.

We pay for the adoption fee, pre-adoption vet expenses (immunizations) and spay and neuter fees.
The shelters work to match seniors with pets that meet their needs, and not too much work, etc. (cats, older dogs)

Question: How much money does that save people who adopt pets?

Answer: Average $75/dog, $55/cat.
 

Question: How can having a pet be advantageous to seniors?

Answer: Research has shown that animals can help lower blood pressure, and that heart patients recover more quickly when they have contact with pets. Nursing homes and hospitals do bring dogs and cats around to patients.
Having a pet helps seniors with socialization, getting them to meet other pet owners. It also sets up a routine, battles depression, etc.
 

Question: What are some of your success stories?

Answer: A couple, the Dares, adopted “Miss Sadie.” Mr. Dare’s thank you note touched us so much, we called to see if we could use it and his picture as one of our successes. We discovered that Mr. Dare has passed away, but Mrs. Dare was so grateful for how happy Miss Sadie had made her husband, and considered the dog to be her lifeline today.
Joella & Rudy, Pocatello, Idaho -- a beautiful collie, who became new life companion to Mrs. Brady after the death of her husband. She still writes to us today, telling us how safe and secure she feels with Rudy around -- and how it's wonderful to know she'll never walk into an empty house --there's always someone waiting who's happy to see her and greets her at the door with a wagging tail. [picture]
Betty & Misty, Galveston, Texas -- Misty was a frail and afraid terrier mix when Betty first saw her -- and fell in love with her. With Betty's love and attention, Misty is now healthy and playful -- and her favorite pastime is playing "fetch" with a ball in Betty's backyard. Betty admits that she gets outside more than she used to -- and told us that her doctor said she's gotten back some of the healthy color that she's lost in the past several years as she became a "homebody".

Question:   Is the procedure difficult to adopt a pet?

Answer: There is generally a two-page questionnaire to fill out to discover what kind of home or apartment you have, any backup plans you have for the care of the animal if you should become ill, if you need assistance with purchasing food, etc.

But by adopting an animal from a shelter, you are doing a wonderful service. 30% or more of cats and dogs in shelters are euthanized, and Ohio ranks very high in among the states in euthanizing animals.

Question: If our viewers would like to explore adopting a pet, what should they do?

Answer: Call the APL, Geauga or Akron Human Societies, or our office.
*You only qualify if you’re over 60 and willing/able to care for pet.
 

Question: How many pets have you placed?

Answer: Last year 4,700.

Pets have so much love to give...and so do seniors! It’s a perfect match! If you’d like to have Pets for the Elderly play matchmaker for you and a new furry friend, give them a call, the number’s next.

And for more pet projects, check out our website.  We’ve teamed up with the Plain Dealer comic “Flo and Friends” to create an all-pets-all-the-time web page: “Cleo’s Corner.” Come get great pet advice, share your favorite pet stories, or pet peeves, and vote for your favorite animal. You can even send mug shots of your own pet!

For more information on this topic, call

Pets for the Elderly Foundation

1-866-849-3598
petsfortheelderly.org

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